itohkata Posted June 5 Share Posted June 5 1 hour ago, Melle2 said: Maybe Octa just got the idea that nobody is interested in her thoughts anymore because there haven't been any posts about her here in the forum recently. However, there have been positive reactions to my last posts. It feels a bit that many trains collided on that topic. As we exchanged saturday, we felt that she was less talkative which didn't help having meaningful conversations here. The arrival of Cassie and Aziza also stirred conversations in a different path. 1 hour ago, Melle2 said: However, we should all be aware that it is only four weeks until Octavis leaves Barcelona. I assume that she will not return to this house after her visit home. On the other hand, I cannot imagine that a free spirit like Octa's can live in Belarus permanently. After all, she has experienced freedom and a pleasant life with all its possibilities. I eavesdropped on the talk with her counselor (?) yesterday and while it was kinda hard to follow, it left me the impression that the future was not very clear on what she would be doing after going home. But it felt like things would be different. 1 hour ago, Melle2 said: If I have understood Octavia correctly - it is stupid not to address her by her real name - she would like to maintain contact with her supporters here. I can only agree with her On the real name, while I agree with you, it's the forum policy. And I'd love to know what she'll be up to afterwards, even if there are no cams involved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melle2 Posted June 5 Share Posted June 5 1 hour ago, itohkata said: On the real name, while I agree with you, it's the forum policy. And I'd love to know what she'll be up to afterwards, even if there are no cams involved. I don't know if you heard her speech in the bathroom yesterday, but I understood that she is thinking about staying in touch with "us" somehow, maybe through a YouTube channel or something similar. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melle2 Posted June 5 Share Posted June 5 1 hour ago, itohkata said: It feels a bit that many trains collided on that topic. As we exchanged saturday, we felt that she was less talkative which didn't help having meaningful conversations here. The arrival of Cassie and Aziza also stirred conversations in a different path. Yesterday she explained her silence by saying that nothing interesting has happened in her life. I assume that she is only meeting men who she thinks are worth reporting. From my point of view, her men are not that important to me. After all, we don't know them, apart from Carlos. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itohkata Posted June 5 Share Posted June 5 29 minutes ago, Melle2 said: I don't know if you heard her speech in the bathroom yesterday, but I understood that she is thinking about staying in touch with "us" somehow, maybe through a YouTube channel or something similar. I missed that speech, that would be nice if she could stay in touch 🙂 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneBeing Posted June 5 Share Posted June 5 It is interesting to me to hear Octavia talk about herself and her life because I like her as a person and am genuinely curious about what she thinks and what she does. I have come to the point where I care about what happens to her. She has a unique personality that is reflected in the way she goes about doing things. So many of her mannerisms and her quirky behavior are very appealing due to the fact that they are spontaneous and real…at least prior to the analytical side of her brain kicking in…but even that is fun to see, especially when it turns into the stream of consciousness mode that reveals exactly what is going on in her mind. To me, it is this kind of intimacy that is most interesting as it is rarely shared in this manner. When you grow to know a little about someone in this way it is only natural to care what is happening to them so then it all comes full circle…one ends up looking forward to knowing more about what is going on. In life, the beauty is so often in the little, subtle things that happen every day all around us, so even the small, simple things in her life are nice to see when they are shared. This is how you get to know someone on a deeper level although RLC is really not the best platform for this as her way of sharing is not encouraged. I don't know that much about Instagram but wouldn't it be possible to do something like a weekly video diary and just talk openly about whatever you feel like sharing? It could potentially include short videos of a festival or a bike ride or whatever was worth taking a video of that could be shared. It would also be nice to be able to offer direct feedback and support…but then that opens things up to every manner of opinion out there. I can see clearly that when Octavia is reading her texts how each one can affect her mood at least temporarily. The reality is, if you want feedback you will certainly get it and it won't all be nice…but then that is the nature of the world. Yin/Yang, opposites connected like two sides of a coin are always in play so love does not exist without hate and we certainly see that every day. So I hope she finds a way to keep sharing in some fashion but I can't help but think that there is a possibility she may experience more peace in her life with less social media involvement. (Something to consider?) I also hope that she finds the person that ticks the most boxes on the list she is making of the qualities she would like to find in a close relationship. What is important to understand is that real peace and contentment come from the absence of a sense of lack. Realize who you are is already complete and as that realization deepens it is just fun to share the excitement of life with another. If you are looking for someone to provide something you feel you are lacking it will never work. Thankfully she has said she is in no hurry which implies she is not needy which is a good first step. I certainly wish all the best for her in whatever she decides to do. 2 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brit Guy Posted June 5 Share Posted June 5 On 6/3/2024 at 2:53 PM, coolcucumber said: Don't think so, the only girls on RLC who does OF as well i think are Dayana and Adeline Linda too...what's Adeline's OF do you know? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brit Guy Posted June 5 Share Posted June 5 2 hours ago, itohkata said: It feels a bit that many trains collided on that topic. As we exchanged saturday, we felt that she was less talkative which didn't help having meaningful conversations here. The arrival of Cassie and Aziza also stirred conversations in a different path. I eavesdropped on the talk with her counselor (?) yesterday and while it was kinda hard to follow, it left me the impression that the future was not very clear on what she would be doing after going home. But it felt like things would be different. On the real name, while I agree with you, it's the forum policy. And I'd love to know what she'll be up to afterwards, even if there are no cams involved. You can do that by following her SM account. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrankZabba Posted June 5 Share Posted June 5 6 hours ago, Melle2 said: My voyeuristic interests have gradually diminished and I'm glad that she isn't joining in with the many clickbaits. let's hope she continues to stay away from the bs clickbait shows, especially the one's with amalia and the meerkat. thanks for the updates Melle2! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrankZabba Posted June 5 Share Posted June 5 "So I hope she finds a way to keep sharing in some fashion" i don't know much about "Twitch" but that may be one avenue she could explore for keeping in touch with her fans. "If you are looking for someone to provide something you feel you are lacking it will never work." 100% spot on! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrankZabba Posted June 5 Share Posted June 5 the only thing i really miss about not being a subscriber anymore is watching Octavia. i miss her quirky-ness, her highs and lows, and above all, i miss her smile. take good care of yourself Octavia and good luck on your future life after rlc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonno Posted June 5 Share Posted June 5 Might not be "clickbait" but she acts up and clearly puts on a show. No matter what way you wanna look at it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aussie_oi_oi Posted June 5 Share Posted June 5 5 minutes ago, Jonno said: Might not be "clickbait" but she acts up and clearly puts on a show. No matter what way you wanna look at it. 🤣🤣🤣 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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