Stefan completely dominates Alma. He uses her as a sex toy that can be discarded whenever he has finished with it.
He does not appear to offer any love and affection and does not seem to want to be friends with Alma's friends.
He does not appear to work (which I guess is quite common in Spain as their economy is fucked up by being members of the Euro Zone) and does not seem inclined to go and find work.
He is addicted to his computer and playing games. He does not cook or clean.
He is a complete waste of space with no prospects. Alma will have a very unhappy life if she stays with Stefan.
Leave him now Alma. Go find a man to care for you and more importantly care about you.
Rant over!!!