I would like to offer up a true story that just happened to one of my sons best friends. We will call her Stef. Within the last week Stef reached out to my son because she was getting a divorce. When he asked her if everything was OK and did she need anything, she started sobbing over the phone and said she just needed a friendly ear and someone to talk to. He said, you know I'm always here for you and that is when she told him that she agreed to try swinging with her husband to try and establish more VahVoom in their bedroom. The swinging took place about 1.5 years ago and she told him that she only did it once and that ever since then, their marriage has been going downhill. Her husband walked in from work a couple of weeks ago and told her he wanted a divorce. Now I can't say for sure that it was the swinging that caused the marriage to fail but knowing Stef and her husband the way I know them, it for sure was a major factor. She adored the living hell out of her husband and without talking to either of them in person, I choose to wait before passing any judgement.
There is no doubt that swinging can be fun and exciting but with it comes the other side of the story!