I can dig what you're saying Golfer. Think I worry a lot about VH losing the soul of what voyeurism really is. At least what it is to me that I have become a purist as a defensive mechanism to try and stop what I believe will be the eventual collapse of idea of voyeurism in the face of a live sex site. There has to be a happy medium and a variety of types of voyuerism. Seeing the inability of couples who don't swing to be successful on VH to me is a sign of things to come. That's why I've made it point to cling to them with all of my might. Not so much because I enjoy watching nothing happening, but because I don't want VH to become primarily a live sex site, where it's just sex for the sake of sex over and over all day long or the very real possibility of prostitution or some other form of sexual coercion invading the site. I want to believe that everyone is here because they want to be, not because they are being paid to be or worse forced to be. I think it's a legitimate concern. These are human beings after all and they deserve respect.
I won't go on to explain what I mean by true voyeurism, but you know what I'm talking about.