I have a problem to understand why "common courtesy" shall apply just for this girl and not for any other webcamgirl or any other site like RLC. Because this is from a girl and not from a company? Such legal sentences are usual in this business and almost all published material in the web. In this case, it is just personalized and not referred to copyright laws assumably just in order to avoid cost of copyright procedures.
A "lex Blue" is not adequate.
The outlines of Foamy regarding Gentlemen behaviour are acceptable, this is an individual, personal decision.
For good understanding, I like this girl. What I do not like is, she seems to try to pick up only the advantages and not the package. If she just wants (or is pressed to) to avoid cam4 pictures in connection with RLC is absolutely acceptable.
And a last question: Do we know if she asked for not to be mentioned in the RLC context or not in CC at all??