B4 Girls & Couples On Vacation - General Topic 2020 #35 (December)

[bluewinner]

3 minutes ago, Mauri said:

Apart from the fact that they are not your relatives, mothers, sisters or friends, so I don't understand this big annoyance. And then, they live h24 in front of cameras, their behaviors or attitudes automatically lead to being self-labeled with those names so unmentionable because they are offensive to you, they know that there are thousands of people who watch them and that they will end up in various porn sites, and would I be shaming them in public 'cause on a forum I called them sluts or whores? 🤔 😂 the problem is not me, perhaps the problem should be solved from the start. 😏

I thought you were convinced that RLC is not a porn site LOL  so looks like you have changed your mind on that. lol 

And to your main point. these words are used to shame them, make them feel bad about themselves and to belittle them. when someone refers to a girl as "whore" what he is trying to say is that she is worthless and she is not worthy of your attention. it's used to hurt the girl's feeling and self confidence and possibly her fans here. I don't see what anyone would achieve by that. on top of that it looked like it was against the forum's rules to disrespect the participant, but as no one is enforcing the rules any longer, that doesn't really matter anymore. anyway, if you like to call them names, I guess it's ok with new CC standards. but it's definitely not a cool thing to do. 

[LUCKY2962]

Michael Stora:

«Le plaisir sexuel voyeuriste est plus fort que la pornographie. Une pulsion sadique se cache derrière le voyeurisme. Il y a ce désir d'attente d'une situation cocasse qui peut exciter. C'est quelque chose qui ne se retrouve pas dans un film pornographique où tout est prémâché. »

[ed2]

Gina ❤️

[Amy3]

27 minutes ago, ed2 said:

And the "sloppy seconds" attacks the few ideologists who actually try to share with the community in the open. Like me. They are ruining it for themselves. Guys like me and Bluewinner can go into hiding again, if that's what you all want? It will take a week, and those same arrogant people who attacked us will come begging us to tell them what the tenants are doing. It's quite ironic if you think about if.

no worries. do what you guys have to do to be happy. i mostly was just trying to get people to see what is happening here. it's sad and don't like how it turned out, but it is what it is. i'm going to take the advice of an angel and not let this be the reason i am here or else all that will happen is that i won't be here at all. i hope for the best result for CamCaps. peace be with you. ♥️

[bluewinner]

21 hours ago, Mauri said:

A prostitute knows she is a prostitute, so it is not a comparison to make, because she would not be offended, and then you would not call her a "whore" before a relationship, but dirty language can also be used with her, offenses are when you don't tell him something, but it's not what it proves to be, and it seems to me that here it has been shown many times to be able to label for what it is, but it is difficult to accept it, and it seems whether your sister or girlfriend is being offended

It's just the basic decency to not call a girl , prostitute or whore, at least that's what I have been taught. anyway, I guess it depends on ones background, education, and how they have been raised. if you think it's ok to refer to a girl as " whore ", then it tells us more about you than it does about her. and I don't need to be related to a woman, to defend her against verbal abuse. 

[Mauri]

1 minute ago, bluewinner said:

Pensavo fossi convinto che RLC non sia un sito porno LOL, quindi sembra che tu abbia cambiato idea su questo. lol 

E al tuo punto principale. queste parole sono usate per svergognarli, farli star male con se stessi e sminuirli. quando qualcuno si riferisce a una ragazza come "puttana", quello che sta cercando di dire è che lei è inutile e non è degna della tua attenzione. è usato per ferire i sentimenti della ragazza e la fiducia in se stessa e forse i suoi fan qui. Non vedo cosa otterrebbe qualcuno da questo. Inoltre, sembrava che fosse contro le regole del forum mancare di rispetto al partecipante, ma poiché nessuno fa più rispettare le regole, non importa più. comunque, se ti piace chiamarli con nomi, immagino che vada bene con i nuovi standard CC. ma sicuramente non è una cosa interessante da fare. 

Non e’ cambiata la mia idea. E’ considerato sito porno perche’ ci sono contenuti per adulti, e cioe’... nudita’ e attivita’ sessuali, ma il suo scopo non e’ quello di altri siti porno come “youporn, pornhub ecc...” ma questo ancora non lo avete capito. E poi non si sta’ ferendo i sentimenti di nessuno, non mi sembra che le ragazze si si siano fermate a fare cio’ che fanno perche’ si sono offese😏 e poi non significa essere “inutili”.  

[bluewinner]

8 minutes ago, LUCKY2962 said:

Michael Stora:

“Voyeuristic sexual pleasure is stronger than pornography. A sadistic drive hides behind voyeurism. There is this desire to wait for a funny situation that can excite. This is something that is not found in a pornographic film where everything is premixed. "

nice quote😉

[bluewinner]

1 minute ago, Mauri said:

My idea hasn't changed. It is considered a porn site because there is adult content, that is ... nudity and sexual activity, but its purpose is not that of other porn sites like "youporn, pornhub etc ..." but this you still haven't figured it out. And besides, it's not hurting anyone's feelings, it doesn't seem to me that the girls have stopped to do what they do because they are offended 😏 and it doesn't mean being “useless”.  

how do you know if it does not affect them emotionally, when they are being called that on daily basis? ... and you still haven't answered my question as what are you trying to achieve by calling them whore or prostitute ? does it make you feel good about yourself ? does it make you feel morally superior ? or do you just think it makes you look cool if you are using those words ? 

[Mauri]

3 minutes ago, bluewinner said:

È solo la decenza di base per non chiamare una ragazza, prostituta o puttana, almeno questo è quello che mi hanno pensato. in ogni caso, credo che dipenda dal background, dall'istruzione e da come sono stati allevati. se pensi che sia giusto riferirsi a una ragazza come "puttana", allora ci dice di più su di te che su di lei. e non ho bisogno di essere imparentato con una donna, per difenderla dagli abusi verbali. 

Vedo che non hai capito, io personalmente non dico e mai lo diro’ in faccia ad una ragazza che e’ una troia o una puttana, anche se dimostra di esserlo.  Lo si pensa nella proria testa. Questo e’ un forum, dove si condividono le proprie idee, fantasie e pensieri sui partecipanti. Non ho mai scritto di una ragazza in particolare dicendo che era una puttana, ma ho sempre generalizzato quando ci sono degli spettacoli, sui loro comportamenti, perche’ devi ammetterlo, a volte si comportano proprio come tali.

[bluewinner]

1 minute ago, Mauri said:

I see you did not understand, I personally do not say and never will say it in the face of a girl who is a slut or a whore, even if she proves to be. You think it in your head. This is a forum, where you share your ideas, fantasies and thoughts about the participants. I've never written about a particular girl saying she was a whore, but I've always generalized when there are shows, about their behaviors, because you have to admit, sometimes they behave just like that.

well, now this is very different than calling a specific girl whore or prostitute. if you use the words in that context I don't think anyone would find it offensive. thanks for clarifying that. I need to say that my comments had nothing to do with using these words in the context that you described. 😉

[HarleyFatboy]

2 hours ago, ddhm said:

If they were naked in the pool like so many times in the summer , you would have said that they are sluts because  they are sunbathing next to men half naked ? 

First off, I do get filled in on things that happen on RLC and occasionally I get pictures and videos that help the person doing the filling, explain why what he said makes sense.  I've got a guy I talk to via the PM process that has told me anytime I need a video that all I have to do is ask.  If I was to let you know who he was, you could ask him how many times I have taken him up on that offer and his reply would be "0", zero, goose egg!!

Secondly, I realize that it's legal in Barcelona for women to be topless at the beach and at swimming pools from what I understand, also the drinking age in Spain is 16 years old but that doesn't make it right.  I'm glad that our public beaches are not full of a bunch of topless women and there is no reason to be ashamed of a girl wearing a bikini or one piece.  I think when women are in the company of men that are not their own, they should keep their damn clothes on!!

[Mauri]

22 minuti fa, bluewinner ha detto:

come fai a sapere se non li influenza emotivamente, quando vengono chiamati così quotidianamente? ... e non hai ancora risposto alla mia domanda perché stai cercando di ottenere chiamandole puttane o prostitute? ti fa sentire bene con te stesso? ti fa sentire moralmente superiore? o pensi solo che ti faccia sembrare figo se usi quelle parole? 

A parte il fatto che molte ragazze hanno fatto capire cosa facevano fuori, quindi non e 'un'offesa, ma una osservazione che poi viene riportato sui forum, ma ha qualcuno, la varita' turba, e quindi la prende come una offesa, e se si sentissero offese, non farebbero piu 'quello che vedi, o se ne andrebbero prima per decisione propria