My friend. I, like you, have issues with RLC, and still feel their days are numbered on this forum. But that is a decision only the staff will be able to sort out, if they ever do.
I never said that the incident between Paul and Leora never took place, I merely said he didn't hit her. A push or shove is not a strike, or a slap. It's all a matter of how you look at it.
Kitty and Smith were removed from RLC? Bless me, I must have been hibernating when that happened. Don't recall that event, and they appear to be on the RLC site as of this evening.
All couples fight, it's human nature these days, it seems. The degrees of "fight" wholly depend on the nature of the relationship, and the temperament of the individuals involved. It's simply a matter of maturity, and unfortunately these are two young people, "still wet behind the ears", as we older generation say. Try maintaining the same level of composure and voice when someone has you by the throat, you'll see what I mean.
As for my satisfaction with the forum. There are 4 kinds of members on this forum.
The paying members.
The non paying members.
Those that participate.
Those that don't.
Which one of those kinds is really up to the individual members taste, or decision.