Trump supporters' ability to ignore the craziest behavior on his part just astonishes me. I can answer all of your irrelevant points, but I'll just stick to this alleged Trump Tower tapping.
First of all, as president, he should know that he doesn't have the power to order telephone (or other) taps. They require a finding by a federal judge that it is likely that a crime had been committed. So, in the very unlikely case that there was a tap, some unpleasant event had probably occurred there.
Second, both the head of the FBI and the director of national intelligence during the period in question have said that there was no tap, and they would have had to hear about it. Do you understand how unprecedented it is for the director of the FBI to call the president a liar?