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8 minutes ago, Realm8kplp said:

I am sorry, I wanted nobody to offend and forbid to offer the ideas and opinion. you are right, I can not dictate the terms. you simply not пиавильно I was understood. The my English is terrible.

I do not believe you were trying to dictate terms, or tell anybody what to say.  I believe you were telling everyone you loved Phil and you were offended someone said he should be replaced.  I happen to agree with you.  The comment was rude but my position is you have to take those types of comments for a grain of salt.  Don't let them get to you.  Just laugh them off.  Enjoy life!  You are young, gorgeous, and speak far better English than I do Russian.  I also do not believe you offended Amy3.  She is more or less the philosopher in here, to me anyways, and often makes us think of things we are not smart enough to think about right from the start.   In the US we call it "thinking out loud".  But I'm sure she will explain herself soon.  And note that I do not presume to speak for her.  She is more than capable of speaking for herself..:heart::biggrin:

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4 minutes ago, mic351 said:

I do not believe you were trying to dictate terms, or tell anybody what to say.  I believe you were telling everyone you loved Phil and you were offended someone said he should be replaced.  I happen to agree with you.  The comment was rude but my position is you have to take those types of comments for a grain of salt.  Don't let them get to you.  Just laugh them off.  Enjoy life!  You are young, gorgeous, and speak far better English than I do Russian.  I also do not believe you offended Amy3.  She is more or less the philosopher in here, to me anyways, and often makes us think of things we are not smart enough to think about right from the start.   In the US we call it "thinking out loud".  But I'm sure she will explain herself soon.  And note that I do not presume to speak for her.  She is more than capable of speaking for herself..:heart::biggrin:

Yes @Amy3 is one of the nicest persons in here. She wont ever mean any harm to you. She was worried thats all. Dont worry be happy Katie :heart:

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Hi Katie, I very much appreciate that. Part of this experience is being able to say what we think has happened, is happening, is going to happen, or what we think should happen. I also don’t want to discourage you or the other tenants from posting here too. I think we can have some balance that everyone can be happy with. I know that I have said some truly terrible things in the past about tenants. I’m not proud of myself for saying those things and knowing that you all are reading those comments does make me carefully choose what I say. I think this is a good lesson for everyone to understand. We must be mindful of the things we say because they are being read by the tenants. Basically, the general idea is that one should not say something that they wouldn’t say directly to the tenants face. I know for some here this is devastating because it does in fact limit what you can responsibly say, but by the same token, the tenants have to accept that people may say something offensive and they will just have to learn to ignore it or find some way not to be offended by it, otherwise, the risk of censoring comments will come into play. 

I know, i know, I’m over thinking all of this, but this is all new ground for us. For years we had no contact with the tenants at all. This cat is out of the bag and there is no way to put it back. We are linked together whether  you like it or not. 

By the way Katie, you looked stunning yesterday in that sexy outfit! Everything about it was perfect! ❤️💋

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1 hour ago, SPYING 1 said:

Amy all i have to say about other CC members saying I'm a horrible person

"Stick & Stone may break my bones but names will never hurt me"

Then I'll tell them they can go fuck themselves with a barrel cactus :biggrin:

Hear! Hear!!

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41 minutes ago, Realm8kplp said:

I am sorry, I wanted nobody to offend and forbid to offer the ideas and opinion. you are right, I can not dictate the terms. you simply not пиавильно I was understood. The my English is terrible.

i just got the impression that you wanted to say that you loved phil & would work out whatever happens. please say whatever you want. you guys are very nice & we all enjoy watching you so keep living your lives & pay no attention to us & be happy!!!!

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1 hour ago, mic351 said:

You know me.  I am very discrete and keep most of my opinions to myself. :biggrin:  I believe I said it best when I responded to Katie.  Laugh it off.  Most of us have a language barrier problem and so we speculate and obfuscate. I think being a participant one should not be thin skinned.  You have invited us into your life by virtue of being a participant.  You have to take the gossip and comments that come with it; but take them for a grain of salt.  Most of us are going to say what we are going to say.  I certainly will not let a participant or a member of CC tell me what or what  I cannot speak on.  I'm paying for the privilege of comment on and viewing these participants.  .  Now no one has to like what I say and anyone, including participants, are free to comment on my posts.  Conversely, no one can or will restrict my posts.  

This site does a pretty good job of policing itself.  Someone's comments may get way out of line and the other members will generally take them to task. Participants should feel free to take part in the conversations here and I would like to see more of it.  If as members they don't like a comment, they should feel free to respond. However, the last time I checked Katie, Mira, Alan, Linda,  Misty,  none of them owned CC or even had a stake in it.  Since they cannot banned or revoke anyone's membership; I will treat them like i would any other CC Member.  Well anyone but Jabbath and Sparkles, I reserve a larger potion of sarcasm for those two..:biggrin::biggrin:

All that being said one must admire them for being a participant.  Opening up your life to thousands of viewers has to be a challenge.  I'm not sure I could do it and as such, I believe they should be treated with a certain amount of respect. But they must not and cannot be allowed to dictate the conversations and comments here at CC.  As members, it is our job to police ourselves and I think we do it rather well.  End of verbose diatribe..

Oh yeah mic, you are so very shy and reserved! Lol

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