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We agree!! She is not that innocent. Does it mean she is not considered a slut or whore if she is seeing a Female or just a Male? If she is sharing information with Alberto and showing him the lingerie, Martina has most likely share with him her plans with a female. But the secret might be, at last the 2some she has wanted; with another female and male (not Alberto)? I can only imagine Alberto with that nervous (annoying) laugh. Let me know if he gets his before she leaves. If she leaves, I imagine it is going to be an all-nighter! I will check in on the situation once my shift is over. If Martina provides the details of the event to Alberto, hopefully it will be translated or not! We will all just have to imagine. If it is a female or male, I just hope she is (excuse my language) fucked out of her mind! She has earned it!

Pussy Brush?

So I am reading about Martina's sexy underwear being placed in a backpack..Is Martina meeting someone later today or tonight? Is she meeting Alberto later or is this all for a new friend she sent the nude pictures to that Martina fans continue to defend her innocence? Anyone know? Male or Female or perhaps even Nelly?

@girlsfun2, Thanks for the information. Was she gifted a new necklace from Alberto or the big guy? I wouldn't be surprised if it came from the big guy. As much as her and the big guy talk openly and in front of the friend with benefits (Alberto), the big guy must be one. As much as many or a few continue make excuses or defend Martina, I think she is having a thing with the big guy; Alberto suspects it but not saying anything and life goes on. Life goes on until one day Martina wakes up and tells Alberto the truth, she loves him, wants to stay with him but also wants to see and spend more time with the big guy. With school, the drama might be too much for her to focus and only anger Alberto. I would agree Alberto and Martina are good for one another for the love and understanding, but right now Martina wants to experience more than Alberto can give and she may be untrustworthy. Keeping secrets. I have mentioned previously, Martina and Nelly are clearly from different cultures, but personalities seem to be very similar. Nelly went sideways on camera. Will Martina be next? I would also mention as much as I hear her classmates name Candela (if that is her name) called out visiting, is she falling for Martina. Although sound like Martina has no interest or perhaps I read it somewhere on the forum; all leading to more drama if not careful. I am beginning to agree with Jen about the situation with Martina and Alberto; “Friends with Benefits”. I was told that Martina was showing her breast and lifted her dress yesterday on face time with the big guy. Can anyone validate the story?

Unfortunately, my shift is not over until sometime this afternoon. I saw Noldus response and he mentioned just a friends gathering, which is great! It gets Alberto engaged and not leaving his girl out alone to get into mischief.

Its almost 3am Saturday morning here, good thought! I hope it is there 3-some night and makes Martina happy! Let's see.

Do you know if Alberto is meeting with Martina and friends or are going to separate gatherings today?

Does anyone know if Martina has decided to use "Tinder"?

Agree! Seems at this point sex is all Martina and Alberto do, other than walk the dogs. Additional outside activities together would tremendously help their sex life; and depending on the activities would help Martina feel as though she is doing more and experiencing life. It would be nice to see Alberto and Martina go for the occasional bike ride, go to the park, just a bus ride through the city, go to the library and there’s always dinner out. Has anyone ever seem Alberto bring Martina flowers? If Alberto could just stop being so boring, so predictable, day in and day out, would not only help their relationship but possibly improve their sex life.

My roots are in Illinois. I did a rotation in Japan, offered a job and stayed. I now live in Bunkyo City a ward of Tokyo.

@fungirl2, you have quite a memory. How about the morning swim at B4, where she had no bathing suit? She undressed, jumped in the pool with Bogdan watching, knowing he was watching, she undressed, and jumped in the pool naked. I am still not convinced she is an exhibitionist; just Martina doing what she wants to do, and no one can tell her otherwise! I agree that Martina should always be careful; to your point not being careful could lead to a misstep but let’s hope not. However, I ‘am not so sure she has not already experienced some unpleasant mishaps. School friends, or classmates; she could be engaged off camera in activities and sharing confidential conversations with them that perhaps she should not. How well does she really know the weekend set of friends or their friends? Could lead to or invoke an unhappy situation, parallel to the previous occurrence with Nelly; With only the most recent incident to ponder, I am still not convinced she has learned from, or the relationship with Nelly is over. Perhaps her relationship with Nelly will not be over until she finds or gets involved with a new girlfriend to distract her from Nelly. Let’s just hope if that happens and it will, Martina does not share the relationship information with Nelly; in her condition, it could become an untenable situation with Nelly. In spite of my sometimes-derogatory comments about her morals and being selfish and inconsiderate of Alberto, I believe Martina is by natural a good person, lacking a few attributes (in time will develop) as are we all, although, it does seem to me she is trying to hard to find herself. Martina seems as if she wants to experience or live life and not miss anything, not sure what that means but let’s hope there are not to many bad life learning experiences and there are no hard falls. I would also say the one person she really knows; she knows she can trust completely, and knows her better than herself, is Alberto …and her family. Alberto is a friend, a partner, a roommate, an advisor, and a lover. Everyone is an individualist but this couple “together” I think…are a good investment! Hard-work, discipline, focus, minding each other and only good things and opportunity will come too them.

Yes, it is true, you may have seen her more times with clothes than without. I am objectively in your camp that she is not an exhibitionist. However, what we don’t see, is her off camera behavior. Martina showers, stretches nude, spread her legs, and has intercourse on camera in front of perhaps, thousands. What does that mean; she is not a candidate for an exhibitionist, or she does not border on the disorder. If she drinks, does drugs and with the proven high sexual libido, who know what else she is doing off camera, her choice. She is not the sweet innocent element; some would like to paint the picture of her as being. We like to paint that picture because she studies hard and has some future goals, comparing her to others on RLC. Somewhere, I heard she wants to live her life; she does not want to miss anything. And while that includes her present live in family, it may also include having fun with her outside family, friends, and lovers. We have seen her on camera at parties in B4, where she was somewhat wild and extremely unleashed! I would venture to say her quest to live life may bring out the uninhabited side of her. And by the way, that Jekylle Hyde syndrome may be the real reason Alberto does not go out with her on her weekend excursions. And while I believe they have great love for one another and that bond to live a long life together; he does not want to be around her to watch the outside life as she is so uncooperative and such a follower of her friends as to shoot him the middle finger salute. Please forgive my grammar, as it is 4am here and wanted to communicate my thoughts as they lay.

Jen, I agree with you that Martina is not a narcisist per-say. I believe we all may have some traits of Narcissistic personality disorder.

I just received information that Martina is visiting with Nelly. Can anyone confirm they were going to meet today?

The selections are interesting; And although I would wager my currency on Martina, Alberto, and another girl on camera in their apartment (not Candela). I would also say Martina becomes very excited about a threesome with her and two other guys: and or along with her gay friend and him with another guy. It could happen in their apartment with or without Alberto. As FWB, no one can Martina what she can and can not do, including Alberto. No respect, no morals. As everyone says we’ll wait and see. I would also say in observing her with the girls in B4, the stipulation to this threesome is that it will not happen with a whore. Therefore, as mentioned earlier if they cannot find the right girl, it will not happen short term. Also, just a thought, Martina is still in love with Nelly, has not learned her lesson from the parking lot meeting. It may have been a mistake, (we all do it) probably still texting and talking but from all the chatter on this matter, she clearly does not want to discuss it with Alberto which is not understandable, since she is said to discloses practically everything to him.

Exactly. All women should know their bodies! While there has been much conversation about what Alberto doesn't do sexually and how unsatisfied Martina appears to look after their sexual encounters; I would suggest to Martina to take control! Martina should show Alberto what she likes and train him to satisfy her sexually and emotionally when making love. Yes, it is true some ladies may have sex with a man, their man or women and not always be satisfied but perhaps deep love makes it fulfilling or enjoyable. Any comments from the ladies on the forum? Perhaps Martina could use some advisement she will not be able to receive from Buddha; How to move and train Alberto in a manner that will not unset him but help him and ultimately her as well.

Yes. Glad she came back happy as well. Could it be she has something to tell Alberto about who or what is making her so happy but does not want to get into an argument with Alberto? Too many secrets?

Hello JenniferMom, I enjoy that no matter the speculation or comments made on this forum, your responses are one of experience, understood opinion and maturity. Although very interesting to me, my family friend whom I must share my outside activities, continues to advise me to stop engaging in this forum. I too do not feel the story nor the information is over. Thank you

Acknowledge the change

Acknowledge the change

Bogdan for one, unless you don't think he is a man.

Considering the past events, I believe we all could have predicted what would happen with the known meeting. As intelligent as Martina is predicted to be she knew as well. I am reminded of her comments about "No one can tell her what to do". I guess Bogdan can. As with her studies, Martina (25 or not) should focus on her current personal situation with Alberto. He is smarter and knows more than he is being told by Martina or being given credit. He loves Martina (Friends with Benefit or not), if she loves him as much remains to be seen. However, for now he appears to be tolerant. If she cannot control and manage her personal life, how is it that she will be successful as she would like in the tourism business.

Good thought! Sooner or later perhaps there are real actualities that will come out. Perhaps the Nelly Martina involvement will come back to the camera. Is Martina really being trustworthy with Alberto or is this unbroken Nelly situation a distraction for another life occurrence? Sure, conjecture but a thought.

Agree with you here, "Too many secrets" and the M&N thing is complicated or is it because so much is personal and off camera. If the relationship between M&N is about more than sex, why don't they get their own apartment as suggested? Not sure it would survive! Someone on the forum mentioned it was Bogdan that ask Martina to see Nelly. Why? Is he missing the RLC extra Euros? I see him trying to get back on camera. Also, I believe he knew what he was doing when he engaged Martina to meet with Nelly and what would occur. She could have ignored Bogdan’s request, and said it is not a good idea! But she wanted to see Nelly! Is it possible she knew where it would lead? In many ways M&N are alike; hiding just enough from there live-in partners to continue to communicate with each other. Neither have no real morals. Why is it that Martina has very few girlfriends and communicates with many more males? Other than the two males seen on camera, she receives, and text others Alberto is unaware. Although, I believe Martina understands Nelly, would be, is explosive and a relationship with her would derail her future, she may get excited about the risk. Just one other thought, Martina has been seen coming home as drunk as she was described after being with Nelly. Weekend after weekend; there seem to be an indication she over drinks to an extreme drunken state and might not always be able to control herself. Alberto knew she was with Nelly this time, and with other times upon returning home extremely drunk knows she is with her other friends? With her sexual libido which he clearly knows, why then does he not ask if she had been fucking them?