I used to pretty much feel the same as you but after careful thought I realized that almost all of the couples in here have their share of problems, as do must couples. Moreover, I think you probably have to be very brave, immodest, or a bit whacked to put your life out in the open 24/7 for all to see. So I have pretty much given up being surprised, disappointed, or even moved at the antics or drama of the couples on cam at RLC. guess I've learned to take it for what it is, entertainment and nothing more.
I certainly am not going to get emotionally involved with anyone or anyone's actions on this site. I find I have no need to live vicariously through any of the people here. I've got a screwy enough life as it is. I would suggest that those of you who do get emotionally involved or develop strong feelings for any of the females (or males) on RLC think about getting some help. Or getting a life besides your pc. Folks, this is a voyeur site, (RLC) and nothing more. *End of Rant*