Kenpaul Posted March 28, 2021 Share Posted March 28, 2021 33 minutes ago, HarleyFatboy said: LMAO....that seems to be the consensus of the majority in this forum. It's just an easy way for people to justify it in their own mind. My wife and I were going on 31 years of marriage when I lost her and we were always madly in love with each other and didn't stray outside our marriage. The problem now is that the people today as in the one's on RLC and in "real" life don't hold relationships true anymore. They would rather get all messed up on drugs and go out and have sex with a total stranger instead of being in a commented relationship and making it work. Unfortunately that is how the world is today....the majority of the marriages today don't even last 5 years!! The friends that I grew up with have all been married 25 years plus....if that doesn't tell you something, nothing will!! I agree. I'm 67 so I know where you're coming from. My question was did A. and M. have going away sex. Yelt said yes, Friday and Saturday. He said on one of those days Alberto hesitated, but fucked anyway. My point about the 9/10 year involvement is based on some people keep saying it's a mature affair, and she's trying something new. I agree are they a real couple, or a pretend couple? If real, then act like you're committed, but if they're pretend, it's all a sham. My go to couple is Linda and Tibor. Other than the fact they're willing to have public sex,they seem to be a committed married couple. You have some good level headed points. 1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JenniferMom Posted March 28, 2021 Share Posted March 28, 2021 We are all struggling with the cognitive dissonance we are feeling between the two basic narratives (i.e. movies) that we have seen with our eyes: (A) We have seen Martina and Nelly make incredibly passionate love and be very intimate together; (B) We have seen Alberto and Martina have a sweet long-term boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Cognitive dissonance occurs when we can't rationalize these two narratives in our minds, i.e. we don't understand how they co-exist. Ultimately we will need some other data and facts to break this dissonance. Some possible explanations include: 1. Alberto and Martina's relationship is mostly a made-for-TV gig between a couple of childhood fuck buddies. Neither of them are truly committed to each other. 2. Alberto is an idiot and has no clue that Martina and Nelly love each other as much as they do. 3. Alberto and Martina have some sort of unique "open relationship" that allows both of them to have "fuck buddies" without any ramifications. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sills Posted March 28, 2021 Share Posted March 28, 2021 pauvre alberto meme les chiens ne l'ecoutent pas 🤣 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Howard Posted March 28, 2021 Share Posted March 28, 2021 33 minutes ago, EMMETT111 said: it cracks me up some of you have no problem with Martina making a living having sex live on the internet but if she starts seeing a married woman now she has no morals 🤣 Bahaha... Many don't see that as being immoral as it might be a reflection on themselves. Also, wy point out that immorality if it serves a selfish purpose (salivating over a naked chick on camera). 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Howard Posted March 28, 2021 Share Posted March 28, 2021 28 minutes ago, yelt said: You are correct.. She has no moral. Many (women and men) make a living having sex on the internet, its called porn. It is the way she seems to be ruining others or stepping on others for her wild addiction. EVERYBODY on RLC is immoral. Just as most everyone in the world is a hypocrite. People will say they have 'faith' in their religion, but will not necessary abide by the laws of their religion. We have already established (and accepted) their immorality (as well as ours). It's how far they will push that envelope is what we're judging. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nikita Posted March 28, 2021 Share Posted March 28, 2021 25 minutes ago, Howard said: EVERYBODY on RLC is immoral. Just as most everyone in the world is a hypocrite. People will say they have 'faith' in their religion, but will not necessary abide by the laws of their religion. We have already established (and accepted) their immorality (as well as ours). It's how far they will push that envelope is what we're judging. Amen 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarleyFatboy Posted March 28, 2021 Share Posted March 28, 2021 41 minutes ago, JenniferMom said: We are all struggling with the cognitive dissonance we are feeling between the two basic narratives (i.e. movies) that we have seen with our eyes: (A) We have seen Martina and Nelly make incredibly passionate love and be very intimate together; (B) We have seen Alberto and Martina have a sweet long-term boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Cognitive dissonance occurs when we can't rationalize these two narratives in our minds, i.e. we don't understand how they co-exist. Ultimately we will need some other data and facts to break this dissonance. Some possible explanations include: 1. Alberto and Martina's relationship is mostly a made-for-TV gig between a couple of childhood fuck buddies. Neither of them are truly committed to each other. 2. Alberto is an idiot and has no clue that Martina and Nelly love each other as much as they do. 3. Alberto and Martina have some sort of unique "open relationship" that allows both of them to have "fuck buddies" without any ramifications. I'll go with explanation #1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nagachilli2 Posted March 28, 2021 Share Posted March 28, 2021 43 minutes ago, JenniferMom said: We are all struggling with the cognitive dissonance we are feeling between the two basic narratives (i.e. movies) that we have seen with our eyes: (A) We have seen Martina and Nelly make incredibly passionate love and be very intimate together; (B) We have seen Alberto and Martina have a sweet long-term boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Cognitive dissonance occurs when we can't rationalize these two narratives in our minds, i.e. we don't understand how they co-exist. Ultimately we will need some other data and facts to break this dissonance. Some possible explanations include: 1. Alberto and Martina's relationship is mostly a made-for-TV gig between a couple of childhood fuck buddies. Neither of them are truly committed to each other. 2. Alberto is an idiot and has no clue that Martina and Nelly love each other as much as they do. 3. Alberto and Martina have some sort of unique "open relationship" that allows both of them to have "fuck buddies" without any ramifications. I'd go with explanation #3...but I don't know how long he can cope with it... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarleyFatboy Posted March 28, 2021 Share Posted March 28, 2021 12 minutes ago, nagachilli2 said: I'd go with explanation #3...but I don't know how long he can cope with it... Personally, I think explanation #3 is a copout.....but what do I know!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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