ar2d2, you're new here. Reading my posts I tend to be very direct with my responses, regarding either CC members or those in the apts, and I speak with a LOT of sarcasm. MOST of the times it's not with the intentions of being disrespectful, except for this one fool in the Leora thread who I'm about to tear apart in a second.
Having said that, to answer your initial question "Why so many haters?" the short answer is most of the people here think with their little heads. The long answer is something I theorized on in another post. A lot of the members here (for the purposes of civilized discussion I won't name names) get wrapped up in their infatuation with one or more of the females, mix it in with their rigid ideals for what the perfect relationship should be, and then proceed to unnecessarily bash the men because they feel like they're not treating their girlfriends the way they're "supposed" to be treated. Sex has a lot to do with it too; when someone wants to jerk off but the boyfriend happens to not be interested then he somehow becomes gay. I can't even count the amount of times these guys have been called gay/fag/etc just because they're interested in something else at the time.
There are very few people on this board that understand how to criticize the relationship objectively. For example, guys have been criticized for spending time on their cell phones but nothing is said when girls spend WAY more time on them. Guys have been called all kinds of names for playing video games, despite the fact that nothing is said when Alma, Maya or Isabel play them. The men on this board want to believe that just because these girls are hot and walk around naked (ignoring the fact that she's probably only walking around naked because she's on camera) that they're perfect, despite the fact that hardly anyone here can understand what the hell these people say to each other. Leora has a rabid fan base because everyone thinks she's hot. Hardly any one cares that she act's like a 12 year old with her mood swings or the fact that she's supposedly said some really cruel things to Paul. Paul isn't perfect, but he's a nice guy. Of course you would never know that because people here bash the unholy shit out of him just because he doesn't last long in bed, again going back to what I said before about wanting to jerk off to these girls.
There is a LOT of hypocrisy on this board in that regards and in my opinion is the one thing that really pisses me off. Paul get's judged because he doesn't work. Neither Isabel nor Maya work and not a single thing is said. If I really wanted to I could point out a TON of incidences like that with ALL the couples but I don't really have that kind of time. I think I've made my point clear. My signature is response to those people that fit into that category.