robur: Here is a long story shortened: Years ago a work friend (female) lost her husband. She had 5 kids, all at home. After a a few months, I invited her and her kids to our mountain cabin for the week-end. They accepted and away we went. I had always found this girl appealing and attractive and being the voyeur I am, I decided I'd like to catch her in the nude if I could. As luck would have it, she decided to take a late shower and I "went out for a smoke". I knew there was a small gap in the bathroom curtain so I sneaked up there and was rewarded with seeing (for a few seconds), this pretty lady in all her glory drying off with the towel. Fast forward 9 months and I left that selfish fat bitch I was married to and started to casually date my work friend. Fast forward another year and we got married (5 brat kids and all). Fast forward 17 years and we are still married and very much in love. We both have grand kids now. She isn't as beautiful as she was 20 years ago (now age 58) but I still like to sneak in and stand to the side unnoticed and watch her shower and dry off. When she catches me, she calls me "perv" and we laugh. It still gives me a stiffy (at age 68). Some of my happiest times are watching my wife do ordinary things when she doesn't know. Yup, I'm a voyeur.