Slender Man Posted January 31, 2020 Share Posted January 31, 2020 3 minutes ago, HarleyFatboy said: LMAO...too funny!! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarleyFatboy Posted January 31, 2020 Share Posted January 31, 2020 Just now, Slender Man said: Don't mention it 🙂 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slender Man Posted January 31, 2020 Share Posted January 31, 2020 1 minute ago, HarleyFatboy said: Don't mention it 🙂 No got that song yet!! 🤣 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarleyFatboy Posted January 31, 2020 Share Posted January 31, 2020 2 minutes ago, Slender Man said: No got that song yet!! 🤣 The answer, even with the clues you gave which I'm sure are spot on, is no. I thought I would be much better at naming the songs by a few lyrics and with some lyrics I am, but your lyrics are affecting that part of my brain where clearly I'm not LMAO. It's another song that I will have to wait to find out what the correct answer is. However, you keep putting the lyrics up and I will keep trying to improve! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slender Man Posted January 31, 2020 Share Posted January 31, 2020 4 minutes ago, HarleyFatboy said: The answer, even with the clues you gave which I'm sure are spot on, is no. I thought I would be much better at naming the songs by a few lyrics and with some lyrics I am, but your lyrics are affecting that part of my brain where clearly I'm not LMAO. It's another song that I will have to wait to find out what the correct answer is. However, you keep putting the lyrics up and I will keep trying to improve! You will kick yourself i'm sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarleyFatboy Posted January 31, 2020 Share Posted January 31, 2020 1 minute ago, Slender Man said: You will kick yourself i'm sure. You are probably right lol. Now let's just hope someone gets it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HarleyFatboy Posted January 31, 2020 Share Posted January 31, 2020 24 minutes ago, Amy3 said: What people who are sick of the naysayers would say is that we're looking at this too seriously. I say we're because I'm a naysayer too. Anyways, they'll say it's boring to us because we're overthinking it. That we're too focused on looking at the guy behind the curtain over there pushing the buttons. If only we would just take it in as it comes we would be a lot happier and the fun feelings would return. It's a tactic for sure. One that is designed to shut the naysayer up. But, are they right? Does talking about the nuts and bolts of the sites ruin the fun? Well, I guess that depends on why one is watching. My guess is that most of the people here aren't getting off on much of anything anymore. That only lasts so long and before you know it, you transition from voyeur sex surfer to voyeur site record keeper. Knowledge replaces sex as the source of the orgasm. What gets a forum user off isn't the sex it's the knowledged gained about X. Sex and sexiness are king, but the point of this forum is to create a historical overview of the events transpired. Voyeur? Hardly, more like Historian! It's not the number of posts or reps that matter, it's the thickness of one's encyclopedia. Well said but I really like the gif 🙂 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robwin Posted January 31, 2020 Share Posted January 31, 2020 1 hour ago, Amy3 said: What people who are sick of the naysayers would say is that we're looking at this too seriously. I say we're because I'm a naysayer too. Anyways, they'll say it's boring to us because we're overthinking it. That we're too focused on looking at the guy behind the curtain over there pushing the buttons. If only we would just take it in as it comes we would be a lot happier and the fun feelings would return. It's a tactic for sure. One that is designed to shut the naysayer up. But, are they right? Does talking about the nuts and bolts of the sites ruin the fun? Well, I guess that depends on why one is watching. My guess is that most of the people here aren't getting off on much of anything anymore. That only lasts so long and before you know it, you transition from voyeur sex surfer to voyeur site record keeper. Knowledge replaces sex as the source of the orgasm. What gets a forum user off isn't the sex it's the knowledged gained about X. Sex and sexiness are king, but the point of this forum is to create a historical overview of the events transpired. Voyeur? Hardly, more like Historian! It's not the number of posts or reps that matter, it's the thickness of one's encyclopedia. Never heard it called that before then again suppose it depends on how often you have thumbed throught it 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mazza Posted January 31, 2020 Share Posted January 31, 2020 No matter what people find enjoyment about the sites currently available. Think most will agree none of it is voyeurism and they are not voyeur sites. Can think you are being voyeurs, but only kidding yourselves. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Foamy T. Squirrel Posted January 31, 2020 Share Posted January 31, 2020 4 hours ago, Amy3 said: I did have a moment of pure Eureka a while back! Yes, I found a way to enjoy these sites again. It became clear to me that what my problem was, was that I was too focused on the mechanical interworking of the site, I was too focused on being a historian and a caretaker. It became like a job and part of that job was to sort out what was good and bad about the players. Where lies evil in my kingdom! What I later discovered was that I didn't really know much of anything. Without knowing the actual truth and all of the details and factors my judgements were inadequate and therefore, picking winners and losers was folly and not right. Here is the answer to the puzzle of fun and boredom as it pertains to a person's enjoyment of a voyeur site. Look for anything that is sexy, interesting/intriguing, controversial, funny, or just plain weird no matter where it is. My point is very simple! It is not the responsibility for the site and tenants to make sure that your stay is enjoyable, it is YOUR responsibility to find something that YOU find enjoyable. The onus is on you not them. You'll have a better experience if you give them all a chance and find something that intrigues you without the feeling that if only x this would be so much better. Don't narrow your interest into particular things rather expand into a variety of new things. Also, you don't know everything even though you may think that you do. Don't waste your time defining good and bad. Pigeonholing tenants lessens your chances for joy and should be suppressed. If you can't find anything enjoyable, then look elsewhere in another apt, if you still can't finding anything then it's time to step away. That's how a normal person would get the most enjoyment from watching a voyeur site. IMHO, of course! I'm not telling anyone what to do cause I can't even do it well myself, I'm just describing what I think would make for the best experience for a person watching a voyeur site. Interesting points, Amy3. All humans have unique and varied interests. Therefore, the content these sites provide must cater to the biggest general common denominator, which usually is the lowest and basest. The goal is to get a hold of the largest market share, and most customers either just want immediate sexual gratification or want to wallow in their fantasies. Fine. They'll buy it so therefore it's a saleable commodity. Real voyeurism, where the subjects believe they are acting in a private atmosphere, can't really be shown except it the dark web. It would be illegal in most countries. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mazza Posted January 31, 2020 Share Posted January 31, 2020 25 minutes ago, Amy3 said: Hey there! Loved your comment about the "guests" factor on VHTV. It;s true. They are falling over themselves to win the day. It's not MTV True Life, it's VHTV True Life, Season 4 or whatever. Fuck them! Their site is piece of shit. They ruined voyeurism for all time with their bullshit pay for views model. Anyways, likely they won't respond, because they won't even try to defend themselves anymore. But, what they would say is that there are various forms of voyeurism. They'll post the dictionary definition and try to tell you that voyeurism is anything they say it is. So, in other words if it means everything, then of course it means nothing. The whole idea of these sites was to make "fly on the wall voyeurism". The idea that they put cams in someone's home and the viewer gets to watch the person live their normal, yet hopelfully, exicting life. That's a challenge and for sure most people are quite boring. But, that's what this is supposed to be about. There used to be a brief peroid of watching the tenants try to find a way to be comfortable enough to be sexy knowing that the cams are there. Watching this adjustment was part of the interest. Nowadays, on sites shitty voyeur sites like VHTV, the tenants join and within 2 hours they are fucking in good view of the cams. That's not voyeurism, that's live action cam porn and since they are getting paid per views, it's really no different or any better then what camstars do on Chateurbate all day long. For the most part voyeurism is now an apt that isn't the tenants home, just the place their manager placed them, with stationary cams all over the place, for them to do their camshow for the primary purpose of earning money so that they can afford to stay trapped in their apt all day long like chickens in a cage at the carnival, who play a piano when a quarter drops, so they can eat. That's what VHTV is, and that's what they are turning this whole genre into. Greedy bastards! Yes there are different forms of voyeurism depending on what excites you. Two key words "spying" and "secretly" are what makes it exciting. For obvious reasons sites can't possibly offer that without getting in deep shit. If in the real world a neighbor or someone else you had been spying on found out and were deliberately performing for you. Would that still be voyeurism and make you a voyeur? 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vicky Posted February 2, 2020 Share Posted February 2, 2020 On 1/31/2020 at 10:05 PM, Morrison said: Yes there are different forms of voyeurism depending on what excites you. Two key words "spying" and "secretly" are what makes it exciting. For obvious reasons sites can't possibly offer that without getting in deep shit. If in the real world a neighbor or someone else you had been spying on found out and were deliberately performing for you. Would that still be voyeurism and make you a voyeur? Interaction between couples can be just as enjoyable as the sex and masturbating. seeing them workout, having fun together and even disagreements. Just want sex and masturbation, can see better on sites like Chaturbate. JMO 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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