beancounter Posted November 19, 2015 Author Share Posted November 19, 2015 alan @am400400 · 4h4 hours ago @voyeur_villa why is nastya leaving VoyeurVilla @voyeur_villa · 3h3 hours ago @am400400 it was her decision Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Timewarp Posted November 19, 2015 Share Posted November 19, 2015 that was called sarcasm sir. Actually my comment was in response to beancounter's "WHAT WILL YOU DO IF YOU ARE IN THAT SITUATION ?? " Not sure how I quoted the wrong post. That's a first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sat11 Posted November 19, 2015 Share Posted November 19, 2015 yes she was very mentally stable. everybody commits assault and battery over people they just met. yes for us they are just met because we see them a few hours a day, for them they live, eat, sleep, loughs,talk and have fun all day, they may be strangers when they came in but after a few days people like or heat each other,that means feeling develop trust given, and that feeling heart or that trust betrayed people get upset, that betrayal happens more people react whether cry with frustration or punch with anger, as long as nastia concern they ware a couple she just make a mistake letting christy join in because she liked her very much, yes they all might not think the same every one is individual. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Timewarp Posted November 19, 2015 Share Posted November 19, 2015 yes for us they are just met because we see them a few hours a day, for them they live, eat, sleep, loughs,talk and have fun all day, they may be strangers when they came in but after a few days people like or heat each other,that means feeling develop trust given, and that feeling heart or that trust betrayed people get upset, that betrayal happens more people react whether cry with frustration or punch with anger, as long as nastia concern they ware a couple she just make a mistake letting christy join in because she liked her very much, yes they all might not think the same every one is individual. No, no and no. Did I say no? There are not many young men on here but if there are, here is the lesson you ultimately learn from this. You cannot hold on to someone who does not want to be held. Good bad or indifferent Mess did not want to be cornered. Nastya hung on him as a form of possession and I even saw her physically step between Crisy and Messa. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sat11 Posted November 19, 2015 Share Posted November 19, 2015 soon or later will be fed up of her controlling him, she has to that 's who she is, she have to have every thing her way and he will go along with that for sex but as soon as another girl joins or if that takes too long he will have enough of her,they start arguing and shouting then no more sex. i don't see them as a long term . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Timewarp Posted November 19, 2015 Share Posted November 19, 2015 soon or later will be fed up of her controlling him, she has to that 's who she is, she have to have every thing her way and he will go along with that for sex but as soon as another girl joins or if that takes too long he will have enough of her,they start arguing and shouting then no more sex. i don't see them as a long term . I don't see anyone in either apt to be long term... yes I know let the fantasy romantics have at it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sat11 Posted November 19, 2015 Share Posted November 19, 2015 No, no and no. Did I say no? There are not many young men on here but if there are, here is the lesson you ultimately learn from this. You cannot hold on to someone who does not want to be held. Good bad or indifferent Mess did not want to be cornered. Nastya hung on him as a form of possession and I even saw her physically step between Crisy and Messa. yes that is true but some times she acted needy or clingy because the was sensed a treat from christy, when you feel afraid of loosing you act or fight to protect what you think is yours, for us she might look desperate possessive for her it is to show christy he is hers even tho she lost the war one reason or another. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Timewarp Posted November 19, 2015 Share Posted November 19, 2015 yes that is true but some times she acted needy or clingy because the was sensed a treat from christy, when you feel afraid of loosing you act or fight to protect what you think is yours, for us she might look desperate possessive for her it is to show christy he is hers even tho she lost the war one reason or another. The problem is that for Messa to be hers they would both have to agree on it and they obviously did not. I would not even know where to begin to describe the problems a young woman would have to have to become that attached so quickly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sat11 Posted November 19, 2015 Share Posted November 19, 2015 I don't see anyone in either apt to be long term... yes I know let the fantasy romantics have at it. by the way i did not mean long term in reallife term i meant vv time a week or two Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miscvoyeur Posted November 19, 2015 Share Posted November 19, 2015 Good point Timewarp, which is why I originally said that this is not the place to develop feelings and also why I compared it to Akira and Tanya. Akira only wanted to fuck Tanya out of a conquest or a one time thing. He obviously had no feelings for her. Then things blew up between Tanya and Karen and she wound up staying there with him and getting super clingy and Akira couldn't handle it and in the end he wound up having to shut her out. Tanya lying on the floor in front of Akira's bedroom when he wouldn't let her in was very reminiscent of when Nastya was sitting on the floor in front of Christy's room while they were fucking. Girls getting clingy to these guys and being blind to the fact that they only want to have fun and not be tied down. Nothing good ever comes from that, whether in VV or in real life. Now the interesting bit will we what comes from the relationship of Messa and Christy. Right now because of all the drama of the past night as well as how they first became interested in each other, it's too soon to see if either of them have genuine feelings for one another or are basically just fuck buddies who happen to live together. But soon VV will have to fill the 2nd bedroom with another tenant, and maybe even a single guy and a single girl (I desperately hope it's not a couple), and the dynamic will change. Which brings up another decision for Messa and Christy that they will soon have to face. Either they will share a bedroom and risk become a "forced couple" or they will keep separate bedrooms and risk having to share their bedrooms with new people and will have to face the possibility that the other will probably fuck them too. VV is not about couples, nor should it be in my opinion. Look what's happening at Tver. They stopped Tver and Voronehz from having parties together like everybody (not including me) wanted. Everybody wished and prayed for the girlfriend of Akira to move in (not including me) and Sonia moved in, and now that apartment is boring as all hell, even with all the sex they have there. The only time I see anything going on at Tver is when I first load the site and it's first apartment that comes up. Then I switch to Voro and completely forget about Tver. If you want established couples and same repetitive routine, stay at RLC. RLC as a whole is just a boring as Tver is. I know I talk a lot. I'm sorry. I just have a lot to say on the situation at hand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mr1010 Posted November 19, 2015 Share Posted November 19, 2015 I agree with you, Timewarp. You cannot hold onto someone if that person doesn't want it. And how do you get possessive of someone right after you met them? It seemed like Nastya was possessive of Messa within day or two after they met. At times I thought Nastya was starting to accept the sharing or three way concept, but she never truly accepted it, thus she was wrong for the project. As I have said before, and I look a little deeper into human emotional makeup and human nature, these people in Voronezh are not robots or porn stars just having sex. No matter how hard they try, feelings crop up, people form even sexual attachments if not relationships, and feelings get hurt, people feel betrayed, etc. Even knowing the nature of the project beforehand, people do find people they like or are more compatible with sexually and otherwise and when love triangles happen, just like in real life, bad things can happen. So, the whole concept of VV may not be workable long term unless you have a Tver type apartment and people grow bored of Tver after a while. You almost have to thread the needle and get just the right people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sat11 Posted November 19, 2015 Share Posted November 19, 2015 The problem is that for Messa to be hers they would both have to agree on it and they obviously did not. I would not even know where to begin to describe the problems a young woman would have to have to become that attached so quickly. i am not arguing but there was agreement or at least some understanding they are together, when they ware playing games when phil was there if the other needed to touch the other person (who is not with them) they ask the other for kind of permit ion (is it ok kind), secondly if he or christy did not think messa and nastya ware together they would not have snick behind nastias back so they have understanding of sort Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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