New girl Sher

[Noldus]

Welcome Sher

[uppsala]

It's Cher's daughter! 

[Catmaster]

uppsala: So we can hope for a dance performance like this in the living room soon...  

  

[legrandrobert]

I like, looks a little GYPSY to me.................

[happyone]

Cher is downstairs in yellow one piece (Regina is there with Helen and the other one)

[mikeusa]

 I love sher big booty

[kitek]

Sher and Tereza 9/25/2017

 Sher: 800 with sea view.

T: Now where does he live?

Sh: Just next door.

T: And who is he living with?

Sh: She lives there permanently, but she's always coming to him and going. After what he said it became clear to me that he was ready to rent an apartment.

T: And how do you see your future?

Sh: I think it will be like this. Now I will go to (???), and when I come back whatever happens, I'll go home. He will have 3 weeks vacation for New Year and he wants us to go to .....

T: And what is he doing?

Sh (I did not understand the answer). In contrast, he is looking for a job for me. I do not want work permanently in the salon only for orders so that I can deal with my poetry.

Sh: And you go home?

T: What about home? There is nothing to do.

Sh: That's right.

T: I really want to go home as a guest, but there's nothing to do.

Sh: There's nothing to do there.

T: I would like to go for 2-3 weeks.

Sh: Yes, that's it.

Sh: Same here as there. There nobody needs my poems and songs.. These things can also be dealt here.

T: I do not know what to do. I was in Santa Barbara. I like it there. You are constantly acquainted with new people. You are visiting new places. There in Santa Barbara ... (???).

Sh: Here is like in Santa Barbara.

T: Believe me Santa Barbara is 10 times better. Every day you meet someone who can fall in love with you. There you have to constantly mask. You go with one, you meet someone else.

Sh: We'll see. Anyway, I can be sure of him. I like him .... Something that I have not experience yet. Just a man with a capital letter. Solves all problems. He will not be sitting with his parents and only meet with his friends. All that he has achieved himself. When I asked him the question - Poverty or wealth? - he said - There is no choice here. Only wealth. I've seen poverty. And I told him in the beginning that I wanted a yacht and helicopters. If he could not do it, he would not be with me. We strolled down the coast today and proposed that we choose a yacht. Let him know who he is bound to. I think he understands that. We'll see. Before leaving I went to the fortune teller to foretell what awaits me in the future. I did not know whether I still have to deal with my poetry or that is nonsense. She looked and said that I would not be living in Ukraine only abroad. I was wondering how I could get there and get caught in the situation when I could afford for no more than 3 days stay. She said that this year I will meet a guy. That's it. Serious. But at the same time, I was talking about the fact that I would meet him in two years and he will be a politician.

T: And it will be the end of history?

Sh: I do not know. We'll see.

T: Interesting.

T: Looking at this, on the other hand, they propose you live in this country. For that in the city. And you're sitting and wondering.

Sh: Just go home for a week and pack your suitcase and you'll come back.

T: It's the same with me. After just one hour at home I wanted to return soon. But later when I met my friends and family, an hour before the transfer, I said I did not want to come back.

Sh: It's because you were not 2 weeks.

Tereza agrees that it was too short.

Sher says that when she comes home she falls into depression.

Sh: That I will not have to work it is for certain. Constantly talks about it. I like that he is always doing his business and has a job. He is constantly negotiating. All the time thinks how he can earn something.

T: That's cool.

Sher mentions that he is 39 years old.

Sh: Imagine what will be in 10 years ...

T: There will be yachts and helicopters ...

Sh: That's for sure. And if there is a girl at his side, the woman who will demand him, give him children and cook, when he wants, what else he needs ...

T: Yes.

Tereza states that she will have to cook. Sher explains to her that just like here, she has to do some shopping first, and so on ...

Tereza recalls that yesterday she told her friends that in 2 days she will live with her guy and she has great fears about what will come out of it. Up to now she lived with her girlfriends but never with a guy.

Sh: No problem. For 3 years I lived with different guys. There were no problems. With one I did not cook at all and did not clean. Me and him were still working. He was taking photos and I had photoshoots. When we met we exchanged information and we dealt with "romantics". In the end it burned out because he was still working. And I also wanted something new.

Next Sher says that she would not anymore want to live together before the wedding, because guys after a while get used to them, they think the girl is theirs and lose interest to form a formal relationship. And after a few years of living together, love burns out and many couples break up.

Then Sher says that her guy still surprises her. Eg. He started to open her door to the car. He recently told her that he liked that she did not talk constantly and could be silent around her.

Tereza: I talked to him yesterday and told him that for me, it would be the first time to experience it and fears it would break the relationship between them. He: Why do you think so? T: because it's too early.

Sh: Proposes you a serious relationship?

T: He wants me to get a one-year visa to stay with him.

Tereza also mentions that his work also creates problems.

Sher asks what job it is: What is his job?

Tereza hesitates for a moment and states: This is his music we hear all the time.

T: I also do not like his apartment because it's lacking in coziness. In bedroom the light is always on and there are no windows outside.

Sh: The coziness depends on how good you can make it. You buy new curtains and that and that. Some pictures on the wall.

T: I need a new bed sheets. Even before that I thought about it.

Sher urges her to tell him that she will go to the store to arrange the apartment so that it is like their common place. She assures that after such a text the guy will be happy and gives her her credit card and then she will be able to go with the girls who will help her in shopping and arranging the apartment.

Tereza is also afraid that moving will cause them to be together all the time and she needs time for herself and to rest from him. She talks about her former guy. He was great but when they went together for 9 days to Egypt and were sentenced to 24 hours for their company, she could not withstand it. Sex was good for the first 2 days and later she was irritated by everything that was associated with him. They finally agreed that they did not fit together.
 

[nagachilli2]

Brilliant kitek...Thanks mate. So Sher isn't a gold digger then...

[dagobert]

there are not any of them

[Noldus]

Thank you Kitek ;)

[timber]

On 9/29/2017 at 3:58 PM, kitek said:

Sher and Tereza 9/25/2017
 

Sh: And I told him in the beginning that I wanted a yacht and helicopters. If he could not do it, he would not be with me. We strolled down the coast today and proposed that we choose a yacht. Let him know who he is bound to. I think he understands that. We'll see.
 

Thanks for this kitek.

I can't imagine being told something like this by someone I was dating. I would break up with them on the spot. I understand not wanting to be poor, but jesus...

At least she's up front about what she wants I guess. But it probably just means that the guy will feel absolutely no guilt when he gets tired of her and dumps her.

[cacjc]

These girls are delusional if they think a good life is made up of helicopters and yachts and living in Santa Barbara. They have a lot to learn about life.