Sparkles Posted August 20, 2019 Posted August 20, 2019 19 minutes ago, letsdothis said: Oh, you're right, people change all the time. I never said he didn't change. I said I don't believe it was permanent or even possibly long term. I also believe, in a lot of cases, if people like Alex do change for the better, it's only until no one's watching or there are no other witnesses except the victim. I'm also not delusional in believing that anything in this world is perfect or ever will be. Be it a person, place or thing, nothing is perfect. Having said that, I think violent abusers like Alex should have a different, stricter set of rules applied to them. Totally agree with you.. And the proof that not all people change on the issue is that this guy isn't the first time (basically in one month) he does this on cams to the girl even when she is doing everything he orders her to do it, just can't imagine outside.. maybe it's his frustrations and beating the crap out of her makes him feel like a powerful and controlling person 1
ashleyxyz Posted August 20, 2019 Posted August 20, 2019 On 8/18/2019 at 4:03 PM, bluewinner said: Lol
ashleyxyz Posted August 20, 2019 Posted August 20, 2019 On 8/18/2019 at 3:54 PM, bluewinner said: This is gross 1
hotkefguy Posted August 20, 2019 Posted August 20, 2019 1 hour ago, Amy3 said: Interesting! You think an abuser will always be an abuser? There's no hope for redemption? I don't agree with that. May I ask what special rules you would apply to someone like Alex? Amy Kirill didn't change after the incident, or maybe he become worse by insulting people on the chat and yelling to the other guys on the apartment. I really liked Kirill in the beginning but now he has become such an a*hole... Especially after the cam shows started... 2
jabbath1987 Posted August 20, 2019 Posted August 20, 2019 5 hours ago, firewall said: everytime i see a guy in this baby bed i can't resist to laugh More shocking is the guy is actually a lot smaller than the bed. 🙈 1
letsdothis Posted August 20, 2019 Posted August 20, 2019 2 hours ago, Amy3 said: Interesting! You think an abuser will always be an abuser? There's no hope for redemption? I don't agree with that. May I ask what special rules you would apply to someone like Alex? I'm not against giving people like Alex a second chance. But that second chance would come with a very short leash. And if that second chance was squandered in any way, there would be a box with one very high window waiting for him with no future contact with the outside world in any way. (Alex got his second chance and I would really like to know how he has used that gift, so far.)
letsdothis Posted August 20, 2019 Posted August 20, 2019 3 hours ago, Amy3 said: Interesting! You think an abuser will always be an abuser? There's no hope for redemption? I don't agree with that. May I ask what special rules you would apply to someone like Alex? I believe that kind of violent abuse is an addiction, just like cocaine or alcohol addiction and it's very hard to kick. I believe once it gets to the level of abuse that Alex exhibited, it would be very difficult to be redeemable. Not saying it can't be done, but I think the chances would be very slim. JMO.
ceilinna Posted August 20, 2019 Posted August 20, 2019 2 hours ago, jabbath1987 said: More shocking is the guy is actually a lot smaller than the bed. 🙈 I hope yon't judge people by their body image and contribute to the social stigma attached to being "skinny" or "fat".
jabbath1987 Posted August 20, 2019 Posted August 20, 2019 1 hour ago, ceilinna said: I hope yon't judge people by their body image and contribute to the social stigma attached to being "skinny" or "fat". No no I just meant it is a really surprise for me how small that guy is.
Sparkles Posted August 20, 2019 Posted August 20, 2019 1 hour ago, jabbath1987 said: No no I just meant it is a really surprise for me how small that guy is. He isn't small.. The bed is not baby size
jabbath1987 Posted August 20, 2019 Posted August 20, 2019 Just now, Sparkles said: He isn't small.. The bed is not baby size You think an optical illusion? 😁
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