miscvoyeur Posted December 16, 2019 Share Posted December 16, 2019 1 hour ago, Sparkles said: They want to be "equal" but then want special treatment when are treated in the same way.. Now you know.. no more jokes about limp dick hetero guys.. may harrass their sexuality The two aren't even remotely close to the same thing and to try to suggest that they are is incredibly ignorant and dishonest as fuck. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Marble Posted December 16, 2019 Share Posted December 16, 2019 42 minutes ago, Marble said: Why can't you just explain to me what the joke is? He posted a picture of gay sex and then an eye bleach gif. If it's joke explain how it's funny cause I don't get it. @jabbath1987 It seems to me that you cannot explain the joke. Perhaps @StnCld316 can explain the joke. It seem obvious to me that if you can't explain how it was funny other then "look gay sex haha", then it was actually what I said it was, a homophobic slur. I usually read these forums in silence, but this got me because of who said it. I would think that a forum administrator for such a forum would be more respectful to its members and to the tenants since that's what their own rules say. It's easy to just say that a homophobic slur is just a joke, but if the joke is designed to further humiliate and shame gay sex as icky and gross then it's not really a joke, it's just a hateful slur. I think gay people have earned the right to be sick of it and be allowed to stand up against it. Making fun of the way gay people have sex should be beneath the leader of a forum. All I can do is hope you'll understand my perspective as the one who is offended by his post. There are plenty of gay jokes that I think are funny and I can laugh at them too. I'm not entirely intolerant to gay jokes, but I don't think someone feeling the need to pour bleach in their eyes because they saw a picture of gay sex is really a joke, it's just mean. If you can't understand the difference than I guess it's just too bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StnCld316 Posted December 16, 2019 Share Posted December 16, 2019 On 12/16/2019 at 10:47 AM, Marble said: So, because it's just a joke, gay people aren't supposed to be offered? Are we supposed to laugh with you that you think our sex is so revolting that you need to bleach your eyes? How is that supposed to be funny for us? I, and I'll speak for us, we don't get it. What we do get is that homophobic people have for a long time used humor as a convenient blanket to cover over their homophobia when they say offensive things and it seems to me that your friends here have your back for the same reason. You have to understand is that gay people have a long, long history of having their sex being made fun of because it grosses people like you out. What you posted sets us back and is insulting, hurtful, and it's not funny. We welcome members from all walks of life. Mine was just out of humor but apparently you have no humor. Lets lay this to rest and move on. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Marble Posted December 16, 2019 Share Posted December 16, 2019 On 12/16/2019 at 4:07 PM, StnCld316 said: We welcome members from all walks of life. Mine was just out of humor but apparently you have no humor. Lets lay this to rest and move on. How can you say that to me. That I have no sense of humor. That's not fair to me. How was your bleach gif meant to be funny? Can you at least answer that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StnCld316 Posted December 16, 2019 Share Posted December 16, 2019 5 minutes ago, Marble said: How can you say that to me. That I have no sense of humor. That's not fair to me. How was your bleach gif meant to be funny? Can you at least answer that? It was a cartoon gif. Cartoons are made to be humorous. Everyone else has just taken in stride. Time to put it to rest and move on. I am not debating this any further. Cheers. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Marble Posted December 16, 2019 Share Posted December 16, 2019 4 minutes ago, StnCld316 said: It was a cartoon gif. Cartoons are made to be humorous. Everyone else has just taken in stride. Time to put it to rest and move on. I am not debating this any further. Cheers. It wasn't just a cartoon gif, it was a slur against gross, icky gay sex because you're homophobic. If you can't explain the joke then what i said is the true answer. The right thing to do was to apologise for the offensive post, learn from your mistake, and move on. This isn't about me, so my sense of humor is irrelevant. You can't defend yourself because it's indefensible and you know it. Simple as that! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
born1950 Posted December 16, 2019 Share Posted December 16, 2019 4 hours ago, Marble said: Why can't you just explain to me what the joke is? He posted a picture of gay sex and then an eye bleach gif. If it's joke explain how it's funny cause I don't get it. I have a completely different opinion. you say he posted a picture of gay sex. if you only see the picture you can believe it. but if you look at the development of the apartment, it is not a picture of gay sex at all, but the processing of a script. what is shown in this apartment are sexual representations. they are far away from sexual orientation in this apartment. where there is no sexual orientation, you cannot make fun of it, but you can make fun of the amateurish representation 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Marble Posted December 16, 2019 Share Posted December 16, 2019 6 minutes ago, born1950 said: I have a completely different opinion. you say he posted a picture of gay sex. if you only see the picture you can believe it. but if you look at the development of the apartment, it is not a picture of gay sex at all, but the processing of a script. what is shown in this apartment are sexual representations. they are far away from sexual orientation in this apartment. where there is no sexual orientation, you cannot make fun of it, but you can make fun of the amateurish representation But, that is not what happened. He posted a single pic of gay sexuality and then beneath it was the eye bleach gif. It's pretty clear what the truth of the situation is. He and his buddy Jabbath1987's inability to explain how the gif was meant to be funny is revealing. The right thing to do would have been for him to admit the offense and delete the post and that would have been the end of it. Instead he and Jabbath1987 turned the tables and made this about me. It's unfortunate. I really wished that it had gone the other way. Now, I don't exactly feel welcome here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StnCld316 Posted December 16, 2019 Share Posted December 16, 2019 7 minutes ago, Marble said: But, that is not what happened. He posted a single pic of gay sexuality and then beneath it was the eye bleach gif. It's pretty clear what the truth of the situation is. He and his buddy Jabbath1987's inability to explain how the gif was meant to be funny is revealing. The right thing to do would have been for him to admit the offense and delete the post and that would have been the end of it. Instead he and Jabbath1987 turned the tables and made this about me. It's unfortunate. I really wished that it had gone the other way. Now, I don't exactly feel welcome here. I did not Post the Picture. I quoted another Members Post. I only put the Cartoon thing with the Bleach on the Quote. I t was done in Humor. Get over it, life's to short. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
born1950 Posted December 16, 2019 Share Posted December 16, 2019 16 minutes ago, Marble said: But, that is not what happened. He posted a single pic of gay sexuality and then beneath it was the eye bleach gif. It's pretty clear what the truth of the situation is. He and his buddy Jabbath1987's inability to explain how the gif was meant to be funny is revealing. The right thing to do would have been for him to admit the offense and delete the post and that would have been the end of it. Instead he and Jabbath1987 turned the tables and made this about me. It's unfortunate. I really wished that it had gone the other way. Now, I don't exactly feel welcome here. the people in this apartment certainly have a sexual orientation, but they don't show them, they follow a command with everything they do. Nikki has no relationship with anyone (not even Archi). Many of the people, especially the girls, are escorts and are paid for it. Anyone looking at the apartments outside of the sexual representation could see that. So once again and I stick to it, there has been no insult or discriminatory behavior. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotkefguy Posted December 16, 2019 Share Posted December 16, 2019 Guys this is exactly what I'm dealing with in this forum for the past months. Many members there have an issue with gay sex being shown on the site and try their best to sabotage it. Why do you think there are no gay apartments anymore on the site? They have no issue with lesbian porn though and thus never joke about it.... Only gay sex always bothers them... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Marble Posted December 16, 2019 Share Posted December 16, 2019 5 minutes ago, StnCld316 said: I did not Post the Picture. I quoted another Members Post. I only put the Cartoon thing with the Bleach on the Quote. I t was done in Humor. Get over it, life's to short. Quoting or posting, what difference does it make? The point is the same. You posted the gif to make fun of gay people. Unless you can somehow explain how it's funny some other way. Do what you will, but the truth is there for everyone, particularly your gay members to see. Welcoming? I'm not so sure about that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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