Ary & George (2020) Part #2

[Just In]

  On 12/21/2020 at 6:16 PM, jetlag8 said:

I don't believe self defense for Ary is the answer, violence never solved anything. Their relationship is toxic and George has anger issues that turn violent when he gets angry. It's clear to me those two should not be together, and if Ary tries some self defense moves that could just escalate the violence and she could get hurt. The better solution when things get heated is just turn and walk away and leave the apartment, you can't argue when your the only one there. the best thing for them both is to separate and Ary should live on her own, for her own safety.

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Most people assume that George is the only one that can cause harm when angry, Ary has been just as bad when she lost her temper and attacked George. They are both equally bad when they lose their temper. But for some reason George always gets it really bad on CC because he is a man.

[Hank Moody]

  On 12/21/2020 at 6:33 PM, Just In said:

Aber aus irgendeinem Grund bekommt George es auf CC immer sehr schlecht, weil er ein Mann ist.

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The reason, of course, is that he's much stronger than Ary. A man does not beat a woman, especially not if she is physically weaker. His facial expression in the pictures says it all.

[jetlag8]

  On 12/21/2020 at 6:33 PM, Just In said:

Most people assume that George is the only one that can cause harm when angry, Ary has been just as bad when she lost her temper and attacked George. They are both equally bad when they lose their temper. But for some reason George always gets it really bad on CC because he is a man.

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Any intelligent man should should know you don't hit a woman under any circumstances. If Ary gets angry George needs to turn and walk away, not stand there and hit his wife, only a coward does that. George needs to man up and deescalate the situation, not want to fight his wife.

[Just In]

  On 12/21/2020 at 7:04 PM, Hank Moody said:

The reason, of course, is that he's much stronger than Ary. A man does not beat a woman, especially not if she is physically weaker. His facial expression in the pictures says it all.

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  On 12/21/2020 at 7:13 PM, jetlag8 said:

Any intelligent man should should know you don't hit a woman under any circumstances. If Ary gets angry George needs to turn and walk away, not stand there and hit his wife, only a coward does that. George needs to man up and deescalate the situation, not want to fight his wife.

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The point I am making is that just because he is a man doesn't mean that he should be chastised anymore than a woman for attacking another person. It is equally just as bad irrespective of gender but it is always the man that gets it worse.

[Oldstalker]

It's not news but now that their names have been completely removed from the list, and for some days, now may be the time to ask @StnCld316 to kindly remove them to the archived list.

[StnCld316]

  On 12/21/2020 at 10:23 PM, Oldstalker said:

It's not news but now that their names have been completely removed from the list, and for some days, now may be the time to ask @StnCld316 to kindly remove them to the archived list.

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I'll look into it and see what I can find out about their apartment.

[ashleyxyz]

  On 12/21/2020 at 6:16 PM, jetlag8 said:

I don't believe self defense for Ary is the answer, violence never solved anything. Their relationship is toxic and George has anger issues that turn violent when he gets angry. It's clear to me those two should not be together, and if Ary tries some self defense moves that could just escalate the violence and she could get hurt. The better solution when things get heated is just turn and walk away and leave the apartment, you can't argue when your the only one there. the best thing for them both is to separate and Ary should live on her own, for her own safety.

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Yo jet, its always best to walk away from a physical confrontation if possible. . But if she's attacked you may not be able to just walk away. Its not like these two are in a casual relationship, they're married. So i don't believe just walking away is the best idea. I don't remember when they came on here all these fights happening, so Ary is gonna have to decide if the marriage is worth saving. The look on his face when he came after her in the kitchen was pure rage. You may be right, maybe a separation is the way to go till they go to counseling and maybe could straighten things out.

[ashleyxyz]

  On 12/21/2020 at 9:47 PM, Just In said:

 

The point I am making is that just because he is a man doesn't mean that he should be chastised anymore than a woman for attacking another person. It is equally just as bad irrespective of gender but it is always the man that gets it worse.

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I hear you just. But in almost every case the man is much stronger than the woman leaving a much greater chance of the woman being seriously injured. I don't think Ary, as wrong as it is, could hurt George by hitting him. 

[fornika]

  On 12/21/2020 at 5:39 PM, ashleyxyz said:

Hi fornika, I agree with you, but women don't have the time to learn a proper self defense strategy when they live with an abuser. They can learn several defensive moves and strikes to stop someone before they hurt you, which will allow you to escape. Then get a strength and conditioning coach and have the time to do it right. I work in Philadelphia in a very violent crime and drug ridden area. I need to be able to defend myself, can't wait for police to show up and save me.

 

 

 

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I couldn't agree more. Good to have a few tools in your bag. People think its easy to just walk away from an abusive relationship. its not so black n white .

Ask yourselves why  women fall for hard criminals!? Though nut to crack

[Robwin]

  On 12/21/2020 at 11:35 PM, ashleyxyz said:

I hear you just. But in almost every case the man is much stronger than the woman leaving a much greater chance of the woman being seriously injured. I don't think Ary, as wrong as it is, could hurt George by hitting him. 

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Not impying women are the weaker sex are you Ash? i think a kick in the bollocks could be very debilitating lol

[StnCld316]

  On 12/21/2020 at 10:23 PM, Oldstalker said:

It's not news but now that their names have been completely removed from the list, and for some days, now may be the time to ask @StnCld316 to kindly remove them to the archived list.

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Once I hear of anything happening with them, then I'll know better what to do with the apartment board.  It's fine where it is for the time being.

[ashleyxyz]

  On 12/21/2020 at 11:45 PM, Robwin said:

Not impying women are the weaker sex are you Ash? i think a kick in the bollocks could be very debilitating lol

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Haha, you so funny. Weaker physically ill give you. But while you men are following your dicks for instructions, we have you guys all figured out. Youll never figure us out! So There's no question who's weaker mentally.