Don't forget you are looking why people will hand over their hard earned cash, if it was just to watch sex you can do that without paying anything on 1,000's of websites so you need something to hook you. On VH I first got interested when I saw Anna and Alex (just the 2 of them, no party) laughing and joking and she seem so "sparkly" (don't know how else to put it!) and I tended to only look at other apartments when they weren't on a free cam and after a month or so decided to join because I got fed up not being able to follow them around when they went off cam.